THE BACKGROUND by John S Cheetham
Most people, at some stage in their lives, will experience difficulty in keeping up with
the demands placed upon them. Being a full time or part-time member of the
workforce, being in a relationship, bringing up and caring for children, attending to a
family member with special needs, supporting ageing parents and dealing with the
emotional, physical and financial demands of leaving a relationship results in an
enormous drain on our personal energy and time.
What happens to us in the process of meeting all these demands? We can become
more and more rundown, unfit, unwell, overweight and ineffective. Having little time or
space for personal reflection or for meeting our own physical, psychological, emotional
or spiritual needs results in us being ‘off the track’ from where we would like our lives to be.
We can dream of something better and more satisfying but, too frequently, there is no
time to properly consider or to action the dream. Our clinical experience suggests that
when people are ‘off track’ they can remain that way for long periods of time – even
years. When a person is unhappy and confused or overwhelmed by the demands
placed on them, they lose the ability to have confidence in themselves and their
capacity to make real changes to their lives.
As situations in life deteriorate, negative emotions flourish. Frustration, resentment,
anger, despondency and feelings of helplessness feed off each other. The result is that
we can spend much of our time going around in circles. Nothing is resolved. Nothing
positively changes and exhausted, we resign ourselves to a life of misery.
‘This is my lot”, people will tell themselves.
This CD Back on Track was born from repeated observations that people would
become less ill and respond more quickly to professional support and treatment if,
when experiencing distress, they could have the knowledge and skills to
intervene in their own thoughts and emotions at the time that a crisis was
occurring in their life.
It would be fantastic if we could all have a residential support system where we
could talk through, clarify and seek guidance at our time of greatest need. That
is really a dream. But the reality is that at your time of need you can start to do
something positive to set up strategies for yourself to dampen down the negative
emotions and turn yourself in a direction that will help you to get Back on Track.